Thursday, September 22, 2011

I lack a censor- what can I do to change this?

I spent a good part of my young life learning about being honest. I value honesty, I respect honesty, and I hope to always convey honesty in the responses that I give. However, it seems my honesty has gone past a point that society deems acceptable- I have absolutely no censor.



I have been having a bit of trouble at my job, where I tend to be very negative. As a grooming assistant, I am not respected in my corporation at all. I also have issues with the way my company (a large pet supply chain store) treats their animals, customers, and their image (they present themselves falsely).



My boss has talked to me a number of times about blurting out things like %26quot;I don't get paid enough here%26quot; or %26quot;We should hire more knowledgeable employees%26quot;. And today, I spilled another one when a coworker asked me why I don't have a lot of money. My response- %26quot;Because I work here%26quot;. My boss happened to be standing a few feet away from me and gave me a stern look. I expect to be %26quot;talked to%26quot; once again- I might even face being fired, something I cannot afford.



How can I fix this part of myself? Can this be fixed? I try to think things through before I say them, but stuff like this just comes out and is extremely hard to catch. I've been doing a decent job at keeping my mouth shut, but feel like I won't be given enough time to improve before I lose this job.



Any advice?I lack a censor- what can I do to change this?I complain all the time at my job about not being paid enough.. But rather then say it negatively, I say it sincerely.Someone says why I don't do this or that and most of the time is %26quot;Unfortunetly, I can't afford it with my current pay.%26quot; its honest, and nobody can hold it against you for being negative, OR for being passive aggressive, which may be your problem.



So in short, my solution is, just find a way to state the same things, but with more positive connotation. If your boss isn't a dick maybe they might even be able to give you a raise, but the economy sucks currently it might not even be in their power.

Is it possible to change the way he thinks of me if he talking to someone else?what makes you go for a girl?

we dont know each other well. but he would always stare ect ect. but we never talked other than when we saw eachother. he always tells me hey when he sees me.



but during mardi gras he started talking to this girl...



i talked to him last night and he said 'maybe%26quot; when i asked him if they were talking. im pretty sure they are though



and as the conversation went on he talked about the party he had that he said he texted me to see if i wanted to go. i never got the text and he said it could be because he may not have a area code in front. but ive gotten chain text from him before so idk...



but how do i get him to like me again...i caught him starring a couple of times last night but i was the one who had to start the conversation...



help??

how do i get him back??Is it possible to change the way he thinks of me if he talking to someone else?what makes you go for a girl?So, basically, he asled you out, you didn't respond and so he moved on.



It doesn't matter that you didn't get the text. He sent it and didn't get a response, so he moved on.



Too late now. You've lost him.

I'm 32 and I feel unsuccessful - with so many defeats in my life, how can I change?

I have found myself at 32 feeling like a loser. I have had a long list of defeats and failures in the last ten years, a list that might stun most people. I have had low self-esteem since childhood, but this current chain of shortcoming seems to have started when I dropped out of colllege twice in my early twenties. Around that time I fell in love with an international student from Africa - this became and eight year relationship and a courthouse marriage. Also around that time I started hanging out with the wrong crowd and began selling large amounts of pot. I got busted in 2004 and used my clean prior record to and a lot of money to a great lawyer to get my charge reduced. At that time it became my dream to be a Marine. I thought a Marine was everything I needed to be - strong, disciplined, honorable. In 2005 my wife who I loved so deeply left me for a 19 year old guy and broke my heart in half. I was shattered to the core. I followed up on my plans to be a Marine, but bailed out during the first week of bootcamp when I made a phone call to her and she told me I was the love of her life and that she wanted to be together again. Needless to say, that was an empty promise. I ruined my chance to be great because so much of my happiness depended on her. I feigned sucidal tendencies to get out - that feels very cowardly in hindsight. After that horrible failure, I decided I should do something in music, since that had been the one constant love of my life, so I incorporated my love for technology and got very interested in audio engineering. Went to an audio engineering school, came here to Nashville and have had little success in a year. I am working at a smoothie place making nothing. I look at my life and ask, what went wrong? Where did I screw up so bad? I feel that I have a good heart - I would never hurt anyone, steal, etc. I care about people. Why have I fallen so hard, and how can I get out of this chain of failure? I know this all sounds crazy but I have nobody to talk to, and I have to figure this out.I'm 32 and I feel unsuccessful - with so many defeats in my life, how can I change?Turn your life over to Jesus Christ and He will straighten it out for you. I asked Him to be my personal Lord and Savior many years ago and He has helped me and blessed me a lot. I recommend Him to you.

Romans 10:13, 1 John 1:9, Proverbs 3:5,6



Also, read the Bible, New Testament first. And find a Bible-believing church to attend. Ask the pastor for counseling. I will pray for you, my friend.I'm 32 and I feel unsuccessful - with so many defeats in my life, how can I change?Reading your story made me think of my own failures and hardships I faced as a young adult. Although my story is not same as yours, but the heart aches and headaches all seem to coincide to some respect. All in all, you will make it one. Stay focused, have a realistic dream, discipline yourself, define what success means to you personally, take one day at a time, and, perhaps most importantly, LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES. I am little older than you, and I did not get start my career until 6 years ago. Until then, it was a real %$#@%26amp;. One thing I did learn was --- when you hit rock bottom, there is no place to go except upward. Good luck to you and may the force be with.I'm 32 and I feel unsuccessful - with so many defeats in my life, how can I change?first thing first, dont connect one incidence to another when failure takes place in your life. treat each of them different, there could be so many other reason for your plans to fall apart.

always think of Einstein who invented bulb, he tried 999 times and at the 1000th time he succeeded, so comparing to his failures u haven't reached the 999th figure. so still you are a successor. concentrate on one particular goal and keep working towards it, dont give up when u fail in the beginning. always set yourself target to achieve something irrespctive of failure u carry on, surely success will be yours. good luck to uI'm 32 and I feel unsuccessful - with so many defeats in my life, how can I change?Sounds like you have had a hard life. But the one thing you haven't found yourself doing is you have quit so many things in you're life you begin to cope with that, however what you are doing is greatly inconveniencing yourself. You must take pride and diligence and conquer! With faith anything is possible. Only you can make your way. Try talking to the Lord and tell him you want to make some changes in your life and really mean it. God can't help you over night, but what he can do is give you the confidence to go the extra mile for what you want.



Don't you think your girlfriend of 8 years maybe would have appreciated you more if you would have done something honorable like joining the corps? In my own personal opinion, when you hit the yellow boot prints from that moment on, you are now a United States Marine, and you never quit once you hit those doors. Quitting is not an option and what you did was just make it worse for yourself by adding something else to you're record. Marines are not quitters. Semper-FI !!!



Word of advice from a successful 25 year old man who has went through some of the very issues that are dragging you down. And also a fellow Marine.I'm 32 and I feel unsuccessful - with so many defeats in my life, how can I change?1-You tried careers that you thought might be good for you, regardless of the results, you had the courage to try, many people are scared of change, you weren't.

2-You were willing to forgive your wife knowing what she did to you and how hard that was, regardless of her actions, you had a heart willing to forgive. The ability to forgive is priceless Augie.

I don't wanna seem like an old wise lady but it really doesn't matter how old you are or what you went through, it really donesn't matter if you really want to start all over and get your life together. I had much worse life. my father passed a way with cancer when I was about 9 years old, moving from one country to another over night (leaving my clothes, few toys...actually every thing for one last chance for my father to see the rest of his family one last time before he die), grandfather died with cancer and uncle is struggling with it now, mama (I love to say it that way :) was -the least I could say-invisible....although I miss the mother figure in her...I really love her, dysfunctional family, very mean sister (not anymore), abusive ex-husband (who was the first man in my life and I had so much to give him, I never and will never hate him, I really wish him the best), missed childhood, sexually harassed for more than 7 or 8 times, lost teenager years, divorced, not rich, and had many surgeries that my body became-literally-a map form all the surgeries' marks, stretch marks, scars...etc, don't have many true friends,...and the list goes on... Although all this is true..I made a decision to get my life on track. I just finished college last semester with honors. I am doing my master in amazing college u cannot believe its name if I told u, I did 2 internships, doing the 3rd now, have my own place and its all coming back on track. Just find yourself first Augie, and when you find it you will find everything else.I'm 32 and I feel unsuccessful - with so many defeats in my life, how can I change?I can relate to a lot of things you mentioned there. Its not your fault its just that the life is a struggle and you just got to keep learning from your mistakes all the time and CARRY ON struggling. Some things are beyond our control so dude just do the stuff which you find interesting, be occupied and expect for the best. Trust me, success doesn't matter as much as the satisfaction of giving your best effort and enjoying the work you're doing.



AND you're not alone on this road!

PLEASE HELP, Do you think he will change if I go? I will choose a best answer!?

My fiance is from Mexico and he wants us to go and live down in Mexico for awhile. I am looking forward to it. I have seen lots of pictures of where he is from and am very excited.

I want to know your opinion as well cuz he is very possessive of me. I guess you can say he is controlling as well. He told me the other day that if I dont do as he says that he will hit me with this chain thing. (Its something guys use when they fight.) He has been in many fights growing up and says that everyone is scared of him. I think he is just joking about him saying that he will hit me with the thing, What do you think?

Last week, he threw my cell at my feet and it broke. He was very mad because he called me 25 times in 20 minutes and I didnt answer my phone. I couldnt hear it cuz there was something wrong with the ringer. It wasnt an emergency. The next day, he bought me a new phone but told me that I better make sure that this phone works all the time so that I dont miss another one of his calls.

We have been living together for a year now. Maybe he is just scared to lose me cuz I am 25 and he is 40. Age doesnt matter to us. We love each other very much and have a great relationship.

Do you think that he wont be so possessive of me when we are in Mexico? Or do you think he will be worse? How? In what ways? Need your opinion on this? Thanks for your answers in advance!!!PLEASE HELP, Do you think he will change if I go? I will choose a best answer!?Girlfriend, you are two steps away from domestic violence. He is progressively getting worse.



If you live in Mexico, you will be a prisoner. And forget the Mexican Police; they will not protect you. There is a famous case in California where the producer of SURVIVOR reality show went down to Mexico with his wife. The producer killed his wife; however, the man is walking around FREE, not in jail.



You say that the age difference doesn't matter, but it does!! Very few women in his age range would put up with his behavior. You may want to question why his past relationships didn't work. If he gets offended and defensive and violent, then it's a sign.



Also, a man in his 40's is less likely to change!



Delay this move! If people are afraid of him, then one day, you will be too!

Actually, I really think your life is in danger nowPLEASE HELP, Do you think he will change if I go? I will choose a best answer!?Reaction after first sentence: Drop him like a hot potato.

Peace.PLEASE HELP, Do you think he will change if I go? I will choose a best answer!?I think we will never hear from you again if you leave the country with this idiot. Run away!!

Is it possible to radically change your life?

I'm 31 and I've always been an optimistic, positive type person.

Recently my 6 year relationship with my girlfriend has ended (she dumped me - none of it was my idea) and i'm finding myself evaluating all aspects of my life.

At the moment I'm living back with parents and just recovering from the break-up, but i've started to realise i'd put a lot of my goals on the backburner for the last 6 years.

One of the big things I wanted to do was open a chain of shops and for one reason or another I never got round to sorting it all out.

At the moment i'm slightly destitute - i've lost my apartment, furniture, car, my current job has suddenly started going wrong (and i've got bored of it anyway) and obviously i've lost my GF. I don't actually feel depressed, but just a little sad at how everything has changed suddenly within the space of 4 weeks!

Do you think it's possible for somebody to make a massive comeback and say in a year or two's time to be achieving the things you want at 31, or do you think at 31 i'm past my peak??

As I say it's very unlike me to question myself like that but I just wanted some other opinions.

Thanks!



Is it possible to radically change your life?You are definitely not past your peak at 31!



I had a similar experience of stopping a relationship, moving out, moving to another town and starting a new job all at once. I even lost the cat!

It seems so alien to think of now as I managed to build up again and achieve more than I ever did before. You just have to be brave and take those first steps.Is it possible to radically change your life?its never too late to make a change. its good that you want to make the positive step to do so etc ...........Is it possible to radically change your life?Your good 2 go bro. Keep on keeping on! pursue the **** out of you dreams. Thirty one is still young.Is it possible to radically change your life?yes just change your view of life.

Still keep a postivie look though, on some things

but try and accopmlish youre goals one at a time...



firstly get furniture and house back and then try and work on then a girlfriend will come naturally xIs it possible to radically change your life?It's never too late.

Remember that we're here and gone in a heartbeat and if you want to open a chain of shops.... well, let's just start with the one shall we and take it from there :)





Is it possible to radically change your life?You need to face up to some truths first

1 How were you going to open a string of shops, what with ?

2 You are a dreamer

3 Your g/f left because you are idle and a dreamer

4 Look at yourself and get focussed



Yes it is possible to start again i believe life goes in cycles



The secret is to work hard at it



Sorry if i sounded cruel



Good Luck

The harder you work the Luckier you will become Is it possible to radically change your life?now you need a patience to know really where you are. after understood the position you must calculate the things you can do and can not do,take steps to recoveryIs it possible to radically change your life?hi,



it seems to me that there are two different kind of changes, the first kind just happens, the second kind: you have to work for.

if it is meant for you to open a chain of shops, you麓ll do it. if it is not, you won麓t. you need to work towards your goal, of course, but even that happens as if it were by itself. many things i have %26quot;achieved%26quot; in my life, i didn't achieve at al, they just happened. i麓m not the only one observing this in my and other peoples life.

the other kind of change is slow and demands a lot of engagement and attention. changing your character, the way you usually respond to life, people, circumstances, is very ardous. this is the way of self-discovery. however, it is exactly because it is so ardous, that it is so much more important than the success which came by itself.

it is not so important whether you wil open a chain of shops, there are already plenty. but people who work hard in order to understand themselves are very rare.



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  • To Change the Healthcare System -- Wouldn't Disjointed Incrementalism work better?

    When I studied management I learned about disjointed incrementalism. It works well on really huge problems. The idea is the disassemble the problem one layer at a time, taking off easy layers as they appear. How would this work for a National Healthcare System?



    40 million of the problems are all about individuals who just can't afford, food, rent, and also healthcare premiums.



    So why not vouchers for them?



    You send out 40 million vouchers that cover a reasonable annual premium.



    10 million of the people who get the vouchers still can't get insurance. Even with the voucher in their hand, they still can't get lucky and make a deal with a legitimate insurance company. Why? There are about nine obvious reasons, no time to detail each of them here -- bottom line they still can't get insured even with the voucher. OK fine.



    So, 30 million problems are solved. That whole layer has been removed from the problem.



    Let's look for another easy layer. How about if we gave all honorably discharged vets the right to buy their meds direct from the VA with no other contact or involvement by the VA in their lives. Their doctors can FAX in their prescriptions The VA puts the pills in a bag and sends them out (maybe to the doctor, to be given to the patient, so that way you have a secure chain of custody with less opportunity for cheating and abuse). This basically forces the VA to be as good to USA vets as Canada Pharmacy now is. It actually helps the VA because the bigger the purchase contract, the bigger the discount from big drug companies. It makes USA look good -- like a nation that actually cares about its vets and is willing to do something for them, instead of nothing. Fine.



    You just took another 10 million people out of the problem zone. And how easy was this step? It was very easy. How costly was it? It actually made the government money -- so less than no cost -- actual net revenue gained.



    Let's look for more easy layers. How about Federal primary care medical service offices. Rent an office, hire six doctors and 8 staffers, buy some prespcription pads, and Shazaam! you are offerring primary care. All the recipients of this care are volunteers. None of them get to sue any of these doctors or staff members. The whole office is protected by the sovereign immunity defense. But very very high quality doctors could be recruited and selected to work in these clinics. The clinics could be overseen by very senior primary care attending administrators, let's say one of these for every 20 primary care clinics, so they can visit about once a month, in a contiguous and compact service area, or at least six times a year.



    Would all the people now going to emergency rooms from their primary care switch over and start using the Federal primary care clinics? No! Probably half would. The other half would want to preserve their right to sue, and they've gotten used to the emergency room approach, so they will keep doing that. Fine.



    You've just taken another 20 million people out of the problem.



    Three layers have been taken off the problem. Is it solved? No. That's why this approach is called %26quot;disjointed%26quot; incrementalism. The whole problem is not solved all at once with one big Hillary-Care system. It's solved by taking off layers. Easy layers. One at a time.



    So how big is the remaining problem. Not so big actually. You have your basically uninsurable people. Insurance is a bet. Nobody will sell you car insurance after you've already crashed your car, or fire insurance when you are standing in the smoldering ashes of your house. It's a bet. Not all betters are willing to bet on everything. And for some things no betters are willing to bet. Duh, right?



    The rumpen lumpen of the problem also includes the sue-happy persons, and the emergency room denizens -- the sad-eyed persons of the lowlands. It includes uninsured people with terrible, hugely expensive diseases -- ALS patients, brain tumor patients, microcephalics, etc., who can't pay, have no insurance, and are basically your hard luck cases.



    What to do? County Hospitals. So, maybe our fourth layer would be some sort of Federal subsidy program to support the truly outstanding County hospitals that are doing a great job cheaply, quickly, efficiently, and very well indeed. Let's put the money to where the excellence is first, that way, we know we are not wasting it.



    Any problem left after these four easy layers have been taken off? Plenty, I'm sure. But probably less than 20% of the original problem.



    We have worked off 80% of the Healthcare Crisis. So now it's not a crisis anymore. It's an area of need. Something that requires ongoing attention. But not a bonfire, not a brushfire that will eat us up.



    The method is called Disjointed Incrementalism.



    I say it's better than Hillary-Care (or Obama-Care).



    What do you say?To Change the Healthcare System -- Wouldn't Disjointed Incrementalism work better?All vets can get medical care through the VA, but to get a prescription filled, it must be from a VA MD.



    You don't understand a lot of the issues surrounding healthcare. There is a shortage of primary care physicians because the reimbursement rates are so low for them.



    County hospitals are at the breaking point already.

    I'm thinking about getting a real estate liscence until I figure out a real career, what do you think?

    I'm in my third year of college, and i've already changed my major 7 times. I don't have a clue what I want to do with my life yet. I'm tired of wasting money, and I don't want to be stuck with a degree that I'm not going to use, or change my mind on years down the road. My back up plan was always to become a real estate broker. I know the market is down right now, but do you think it's something worth pursuing? I'm only 20 years old but I would really like to get started on some type of career path. Could I have a job as a broker and still go to school? Can I make a decent amount to support myself as a broker in New Jersey? And how would I start to become an agent?I know I have to be good at math, and have excellent communication and general people skills, and also to be driven and motivated to work hard to sell and get clients. If it helps, I'm an excellent waitress at a chain restaurant, I feel like those general charecteristics that make me a good waitress would carry over.I'm thinking about getting a real estate liscence until I figure out a real career, what do you think?Finish your degree. Even if you don't use it, having a degree opens SO many more doors than not having one.



    And now's a bad time to go into real estate, for a number of reasons. Stick out the degree, and then make your decisions. One year will have no impact on %26quot;getting ahead%26quot; in a career path, especially if you don't know what that career path is.I'm thinking about getting a real estate liscence until I figure out a real career, what do you think?That question comes up frequently. The answer is that it檚 a difficult career to start no matter the market. And unlike your waitressing job, there檚 no such thing as a regular paycheck.



    Check out some of the previous answers to this: http://answers.yahoo.com/search/search_rI'm thinking about getting a real estate liscence until I figure out a real career, what do you think?Lax 3,

    read '48 days to work u love' d.miller to start u on ur path.

    As for RealEstate , now is not the time to go into a down turning industry. thi s correction will be like the farce of the 80's - saving/loan crash. if u like being thin go RE.

    note in Good times 80% of RE people leace b4 3rd yr and earn less than minimum wages. RealEstate industry numbers.I'm thinking about getting a real estate liscence until I figure out a real career, what do you think?A big part of sales is the ability to network and to stick with it even when you don't feel all that motivated to do so. I would strongly recommend getting your degree in communications or marketing which translates very well to any sales position. Since the market is a bit tight and you are young now may be a good time to gain those sales skills just in a different market. Do some research and find a company that is looking for some one part time. This will help you pay for school and get those marketable skills going.

    Good luck!

    Exert from my book in progress?

    so here it is, it's a bit long. But the thing over all is 25 pages and not nearly finished! So is it worth finishing?

    --------------------------------------…

    I walk to the ghostly lone park. I look towards the swings. And then I remember what I care to forget but most of all what I wish was here. Who I wish was here. I let out a slow gasp as I fall to my knees. %26quot;Caleb where are you” I silently say to the world. Oh how I miss his scent of Axe and sweat. His warm touch that could make me smile on the worst of days. The secret he shared to me on that hate filled night. How I yearn to kiss him, hug him, hold him just one more time.



    I try and push back the pain of losing him. I push my self up. I feel like I’ve been hit in the stomach a thousand times. It starts raining heavily but I can’t help but mix my tears with the soggy rain. The storm comes harder without apologies. I sit down on the swing. Ignoring the weather I sit there, waiting for him to consume my mind. Even though I know he will not. I don’t dare go back home. I don’t dare leave. I try and picture his soft smiling face looking at me. But I can not. It is blocked with agony and pain. The pain of falling in love but the agony of being broken.



    Warm salty tears stream down my face. Coating it raw and tender. The hole I feel in the middle of me grows severely. Taking control of my every emotion. I grip the swings chains crying harder. How my entire universe changed within that time. How much I miss him.



    After a long couple hours I get off the cold wet swing. I move my legs even though I can’t feel them. I slowly walk home. I climb through my window and collapse onto my bed. I dream of nothing. Just a dark black hole that consumes me everyday. I dream it and I live it. Do I ever escape this torture I’ve been condemned to?



    Soon I wake up to buzzing. My legs ache as I get up to grab my phone on my dresser across my room. My now dry jeans lay hard on my legs from the mud and rain that thickly cakes them. I grab my slick orange enV. A text message from Marissa sits blinking on my screen. I flip open the phone to read it;

    “Get up now loser. And meet me at the mall ASAP. Kay bye.”



    Exert from my book in progress?THAT'S AWESOME =D. You're a good writer. I reckon if you finished that it could get published. Except I wouldn't know what publishers want cuz I'm just an unpublished writer. I'd publish it if I was one.Exert from my book in progress?I think that you have a good amount of talent. If i may make a suggestion?



    Heres just an example, totally random.



    I went to bed and slept. When I woke up, I ate cheerios, and then sat on the couch. I watched some TV, then got up to relieve myself. I came back, and a commercial was on. It made me laugh.



    Now that was a bit over-emphasized, but I think my point got across. Your's isn't nearly so bad, but I call it bluntness in a way. Be a little smoother in your transitions between details and different scenes. Describe the rain as it falls down her cheeks.



    I'm 14, currently half way through my own novel, about 70 typed pages in. I think at 13 that was a very good quality passage.



    The only one that can honestly give you the answer is you. Are you motivated to finish it? or do you even want to?



    Its...difficult to keep yourself motivated. anyone whose written anything probably knows that.



    Yes finish it if you feel inspired to do so. Its brilliant.Exert from my book in progress?Ultimately it depends who your audience is. If it's for you and perhaps the guy in the story then it's worth finishing as something to be said. If it's important to you and if you'll get some closure from finishing it then write the whole story but to be honest, it's unlikely to appeal to anyone else. There's nothing unique in this that draws me in to make me want to read more.



    I also think it could benefit from improved punctuation. %26quot;Taking control of my every emotion.%26quot; is not a complete sentence.Exert from my book in progress?Well, this story has good bones, and is definitely worth finishing, but I don't think it's fulfilling its potential right now. You've got several fragmented sentences, and some of your adjectives/adverbs aren't used correctly. You also switch tenses, which should be avoided at all costs, unless you're switching between flashbacks and non-flashbacks or character POVs.



    Also, the entire excerpt is rather melodramatic. I realize that the main character's heart has been ripped out, but I think that maybe you're overdoing it a little. But then again, I've never experienced that type of pain, so what do I know? Otherwise it's a great story, and I'd love to read the rest of it!

    If i give my landlord 30 days written notice, on the 31st day what rights do i have ?

    i recently came home with the rent on day 31 to find a chain locking me out of my driveway , 2 blue nose pitt bulls in my yard and driveway, and wasnt even aloud to enter to change my clothes. after 7 dsys of persisting i was aloud 1%26amp;1/2 hours to collect my things from the yard not the house, as my lndlrd moved me out without me ,allowed his dogs to destroy and desicrate my furniture unto pieces,while he litteraly took out of my personal property any and everything of any value what so ever..( antique gun collection, jewerly,, checkbook.electronics,appliances.tools.t?lamps flat screens ..etc.. he said i could have my property back upon him collecting over $1,200.00 from me for andonment , damages, etc..! what rights do i have? whats the best way to ensure i get everything back? how do you suggest i handel this ...please help time is of the escence.If i give my landlord 30 days written notice, on the 31st day what rights do i have ?You need to file a police report today and accuse him of these deeds in writing and force the police to pick him up.



    If the guy stole your property and you can prove it, nail him.If i give my landlord 30 days written notice, on the 31st day what rights do i have ?He can't hold your stuff for collateral.



    Not to mention he should have let you back to move your stuff.If you still had a few days before the rent was supposed to be paid, he had to either pro rate and give you the extra money back, or you can legally stay there until your rent is up.



    But under no circumstances can he legally with hold your belongings.



    I would contact a lawyer, even if its legal aid (free)

    Get professional advice. Then go from there.



    Or just pay the guy.... I'm assuming you were late on rent or some reason that's why he's trying to be a douche.

    Tell him you are calling an attorney unless you get your stuff.If i give my landlord 30 days written notice, on the 31st day what rights do i have ?did you, or not give notice? if you did, you should have been out the 31st day. But even though, you werent.....

    he cant say that stuff was left behind,

    or take your stuff hostage, or lock you out. Hope you got a police report, and took pictures. You probably have a good law-suit, depending on your local renters-rights............

    Chain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?

    1. Write the name of a person of the opposite sex.

    2. Which is your favorite color out of red, black, blue, green, yellow?

    3. Your first initial?

    4. Your month of birth?

    5. Which color do you like more, black or white?

    6. Name of a person of the same sex as yours.

    7. Your favorite number?

    8. Do you like California or Florida more?

    9. Do you like the lake or the ocean more?

    10. Write down a wish (a realistic one).

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    1. You are completely in love with this person.





    2. If you choose:

    Red: You are alert and your life is full of love.



    Black: You are conservative and aggressive.



    Green: Your soul is relaxed and you are laid back.



    Blue: You are spontaneous and love kisses and affection from

    the ones you love.



    Yellow: You are a very happy person and give good advice to those who are down.





    3. If your initial is:

    A-K: You have a lot of love and friendships in your life.



    L-R: You try to enjoy life to the maximum and your love life is soon to blossom.



    S-Z: You like to help others and your future love life looks very good.





    4. If you were born in:

    Jan.-Mar.: The year will go very well for you and you will discover that you fall in love with someone totally unexpected.



    Apr.-June: You will have a strong love relationship that will not last long but the memories will last forever.



    July-Sept.: You will have a great year and will experience a major life changing experience for the good.



    Oct.-Dec.: Your love life will not be too great, but eventually you will find your soulmate.





    5. If you choose...

    Black: Your life will take on a different direction, it will seem hard at the time but will be the best thing for you, and you will be glad for the change.



    White: You will have a friend who completely confides in you and would do anything for you, but you may not realize it.





    6. This person is your best friend.





    7. This is how many close friends you have in a lifetime.





    8. If you choose...

    California: You like adventure.



    Florida: You are a laidback person.





    9. If you choose...

    Lake: You are loyal to your friends and your love. And you are very reserved.



    Ocean: You are spontaneous and like to please people.





    10. This wish will come true only if you RE-POST THIS BULLETIN in one hour and it will come true before your next birthday!!Chain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?I WISH TO FALL MORE AND MORE IN LOVE WITH JESUS EVERYDAY!!...COOL IT WORKED!!Chain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?what??????



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    soChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?Mike

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    Kimmy

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    1. Write the name of a person of the opposite sex.

    2. Which is your favorite color out of red, black, blue, green, yellow?

    3. Your first initial?

    4. Your month of birth?

    5. Which color do you like more, black or white?

    6. Name of a person of the same sex as yours.

    7. Your favorite number?

    8. Do you like California or Florida more?

    9. Do you like the lake or the ocean more?

    10. Write down a wish (a realistic one).

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    THE ANSWERS

    1. You are completely in love with this person.





    2. If you choose:

    Red: You are alert and your life is full of love.



    Black: You are conservative and aggressive.



    Green: Your soul is relaxed and you are laid back.



    Blue: You are spontaneous and love kisses and affection from

    the ones you love.



    Yellow: You are a very happy person and give good advice to those who are down.





    3. If your initial is:

    A-K: You have a lot of love and friendships in your life.



    L-R: You try to enjoy life to the maximum and your love life is soon to blossom.



    S-Z: You like to help others and your future love life looks very good.





    4. If you were born in:

    Jan.-Mar.: The year will go very well for you and you will discover that you fall in love with someone totally unexpected.



    Apr.-June: You will have a strong love relationship that will not last long but the memories will last forever.



    July-Sept.: You will have a great year and will experience a major life changing experience for the good.



    Oct.-Dec.: Your love life will not be too great, but eventually you will find your soulmate.





    5. If you choose...

    Black: Your life will take on a different direction, it will seem hard at the time but will be the best thing for you, and you will be glad for the change.



    White: You will have a friend who completely confides in you and would do anything for you, but you may not realize it.





    6. This person is your best friend.





    7. This is how many close friends you have in a lifetime.





    8. If you choose...

    California: You like adventure.



    Florida: You are a laidback person.





    9. If you choose...

    Lake: You are loyal to your friends and your love. And you are very reserved.



    Ocean: You are spontaneous and like to please people.





    10. This wish will come true only if you RE-POST THIS BULLETIN in one hour and it will come true before your next birthday!!Chain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?r-e-t-a-r-dChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?What bulletin? Bring your myspace nonsense out of here, pleaseChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?Don't you know that those things never ever ever work?Chain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?I hate chain lettersChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?not sure what you want us to do with thisChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?ok, so maybe notChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?wow, didn't have much to do today, huh?Chain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?1.Nina

    2.blue

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    4.august

    5.black

    6.mark

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    8.Florida

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    10.i wish bush would dieChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?no didn't work out w/ meChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?what a load of CRAPChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?cool chain letter. i hate chain letters but i decided to try this one. thats a good laugh. =]Chain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?I don't do chain letters. This is best sent in an e-mail to your friends who will appreciate it.Chain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?I hate chain letters so I ain't posting nothing againChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?%26amp; your point is??



    %26amp; where is the question?!Chain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?Tarl

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    I will become a famous acctress.



    Posted it your chain letterChain letter!!!! do it one by one dont look ahead?I'm not really a fan of Chain-letters. In fact, I hate them!

    But... I'm really bored right now, so I'll do it anyways.

    You better give me best answer, because this is the last time I will do one of these agian!



    1. I don't know about this one, she's cute, but I wouldn't say we're anywhere close to being in love...

    2. I am very happy, and I do give advice to my friends. True...

    3. I don't know about A LOT of friendships, but I guess it's somewhat true...

    4. I think will turn out to be total bull crap. My life will not be great. GIVE ME A BREAK! Come on, seriously...

    5. Is true, I do have a very good friend like that.

    6. Is one of my best friends for sure.

    7. We shall see. (I picked 23).

    8. Is true, I am very laid back.

    9. Is also true, I very much like to please people.

    Does anyone else hate chain mail?

    Well too bad. I%26#039;m bored and I%26#039;m posting one right now =p:



    %26quot;A girl asked a guy if he thought she was pretty,





    He said...no.







    She asked him if he would want to be with her forever...and he said no.







    She then asked him if she were to leave would he cry, and once again he replied with a no.







    She had heard enough. As she walked away, tears streaming down her face the boy grabbed her arm and said...







    You%26#039;re not pretty you%26#039;re beautiful.







    I don%26#039;t want to be with you forever, I NEED to be with you forever.







    And I wouldn%26#039;t cry if you walked away...I%26#039;d die.











    SO NOW I WILL SAY:











    I like you because of who you are to me...A true friend.











    And if I don%26#039;t get this back I%26#039;ll take the hint.











    Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they like you.











    Something good will happen to you at 1:00-4:00 PM tomorrow.











    It could be anywhere -- AOL, Yahoo, outside of school, anywhere.











    Get ready for the biggest shock of your life.











    Please send to 15 people in 15 minutes.











    Remember:











    %26#039;A good friend will come bail you out of jail...











    But a true friend will be sitting next to you saying ...











    WE screwed up, but we had fun! %26#039;











    Proud to be your Friend!











    Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence, and don%26#039;t skip ahead.











    I%26#039;ve learned...that life is like a roll of toilet paper.











    The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.











    I%26#039;ve learned...that we should be glad God doesn%26#039;t give us everything we ask for.











    I%26#039;ve learned...that money doesn%26#039;t buy class.











    I%26#039;ve learned...that it%26#039;s those small daily

    happenings that make life so spectacular.











    I%26#039;ve learned...that under everyone%26#039;s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.





    I%26#039;ve learned...that the Lord didn%26#039;t do it all in one day.











    What makes me think I can?











    I%26#039;ve learned...that to ignore the facts does not change the facts.





    I%26#039;ve learned.







    I%26#039;ve learned...that the less time I have to work, the more things I get done.







    To all of you...make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence.







    It%26#039;s National Friendship Week.







    Show your friends how much you care.







    Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND, even if it means

    sending it back to the person who sent it to you.







    If it comes back to you, then you%26#039;ll know you have

    a circle of friends.







    HAPPY FRIENDSHIP WEEK TO YOU!!!!!!





    YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND I am honored%26quot;Does anyone else hate chain mail?Yes, I hate chain mail, but I read this, and I%26#039;m glad I did because you just delivered one of the -best- comebacks I%26#039;ve EVER seen. EVER.



    Let me take a moment to appreciate the delivery.



    1st girl makes a crude reference to her vagina--utensils are involved.

    Guy makes a dumbass remark, not nearly as inventive (or painful) as 1st girl and then commends her for her cleverness.



    YOU brush it off -brilliantly- using both of their comments against them. Yet yours was classy, too. I%26#039;m making a bigger deal out of this than need be, but it struck me as really, really funny at the time.



    -sigh- Happy Friendship week, everyoneDoes anyone else hate chain mail?yes i do but this ones cool

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    Does anyone else hate chain mail?HAPPY FRIENDSHIP WEEK GIGDoes anyone else hate chain mail?no one is going to read that

    Does anyone else hate chain mail?I love this! That%26#039;s nice.Does anyone else hate chain mail?I hate chainmail. It%26#039;s the worst thing in the world, unless it has a purpose i.e. petitions, informing people of scmas



    But I really hate it when they say blah blah blah will come at blahpm and slit your throat or kill your mom or bite your pinkie off if you don%26#039;t send this to 5 people by blah blah blahpm. Does anyone else hate chain mail? ok,i,ll pass it on .Does anyone else hate chain mail?I didnt even read that.



    But to answer your quesiton..

    I hate them.

    Especially the ones like

    %26quot;A girl will pop up otnight and kill you%26quot;.



    But funny ones I can live with.

    Does anyone else hate chain mail??Does anyone else hate chain mail?That was great Gig.



    Happy Friendship Week =)



    You Rock!





    @Jane I read the whole thing guess you don%26#039;t know everything huh?:



    Does anyone else hate chain mail??? why oh why????????!!!!!????Does anyone else hate chain mail?i didn%26#039;t read the whole thing but it made me smile =D

    SO NOW I WILL SAY:



    eat your pussy with a what? fork

    don%26#039;t criticize jane, it%26#039;s a chain mailDoes anyone else hate chain mail?%26quot;A girl asked a guy if he thought she was pretty,

    He said...no.

    She asked him if he would want to be with her forever...and he said no.

    She then asked him if she were to leave would he cry, and once again he replied with a no.

    She had heard enough. As she walked away, tears streaming down her face the boy grabbed her arm and said...



    You%26#039;re not pretty you%26#039;re beautiful.

    I don%26#039;t want to be with you forever, I NEED to be with you forever.

    And I wouldn%26#039;t cry if you walked away...I%26#039;d die.



    SO NOW I WILL SAY:

    I like you because of who you are to me...A true friend.

    And if I don%26#039;t get this back I%26#039;ll take the hint.

    Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they like you.

    Something good will happen to you at 1:00-4:00 PM tomorrow.

    It could be anywhere -- AOL, Yahoo, outside of school, anywhere.Get ready for the biggest shock of your life.



    Please send to 15 people in 15 minutes.

    Remember:

    %26#039;A good friend will come bail you out of jail...

    But a true friend will be sitting next to you saying ...

    WE screwed up, but we had fun! %26#039;

    Proud to be your Friend!



    Make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence, and don%26#039;t skip ahead.



    I%26#039;ve learned...that life is like a roll of toilet paper.

    The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.

    I%26#039;ve learned...that we should be glad God doesn%26#039;t give us everything we ask for.

    I%26#039;ve learned...that money doesn%26#039;t buy class.

    I%26#039;ve learned...that it%26#039;s those small daily

    happenings that make life so spectacular.

    I%26#039;ve learned...that under everyone%26#039;s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.

    I%26#039;ve learned...that the Lord didn%26#039;t do it all in one day.What makes me think I can?

    I%26#039;ve learned...that to ignore the facts does not change the facts.

    I%26#039;ve learned.

    I%26#039;ve learned...that the less time I have to work, the more things I get done.



    To all of you...make sure you read all the way down to the last sentence.

    It%26#039;s National Friendship Week.

    Show your friends how much you care.

    Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND, even if it means

    sending it back to the person who sent it to you.

    If it comes back to you, then you%26#039;ll know you have

    a circle of friends.

    HAPPY FRIENDSHIP WEEK TO YOU!!!!!!

    YOU ARE MY FRIEND AND I am honored%26quot;Does anyone else hate chain mail?THANK YOU AND THERE ARE MANY TRUTHS IN THAT!!! HAVE A GREAT DAY!!Does anyone else hate chain mail?zzzzzzzzzzzzz..Happy Friendship week...zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

    How do i look REALLY hott && make a guy change his mind about me? PLEASE?

    so i went to elementary school with this kid and we were friends this year we got to high schoool. He forgot about me. Then i thought we were becoming friends he'd be nice and i'd let him copy ALL the homework except geometry which he does and i copy. and in some classes we share the work. but generally i do it all. well i decided i DO have a crush on him i mean he is a hottie. his best friend found out and said well he will NEVER like you he said he has you on a chain and you're whipped for him. and he said he could NEVER see me like that im not someone he'd would do 'stuff' with. and so the whole time hes 'used' me.



    So to my question. how should i dress these last couple days of school to show him what he's missing??? how should i do it all?? im going to lay out today and i have shoulder length dirty blonde hair and an athletic body.



    ALL SUGGESTIONS ARE NEEDED!



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    SO WHAT DO I DO I WANT HIM TO BE LIKE WO LOOK AT HER NOW!!!!!!!!!!!



    oh. his best friend likes ME!How do i look REALLY hott %26amp;%26amp; make a guy change his mind about me? PLEASE?Don't let him use you anymore. I wouldn't recommend acting any other way than how you are because if he fell for the %26quot;fake%26quot; or %26quot;showing off%26quot; you, then he'd expect that same person every other day. Who wants to put on an act every day? Just be yourself and someone a little nicer will come along. Good luck!How do i look REALLY hott %26amp;%26amp; make a guy change his mind about me? PLEASE?oh dang. hes shady. lol.

    yeah show him what hes missing, wear ur hair down loosy goosy waves. collar shirts. denim skirts. preppy :] its cute but not sleezzzy. u know? show off ur legs. lolHow do i look REALLY hott %26amp;%26amp; make a guy change his mind about me? PLEASE?Straighten your hair if it is curly or make it wavy. Dress up your clothes with accessories. Wear make-up if you don't already. Not a lot, though. Wear well-fitting jeans. Hang out with his best friend so he sees that if his friend thinks you're hot, then maybe you are.How do i look REALLY hott %26amp;%26amp; make a guy change his mind about me? PLEASE?T-TOP AND SHORT SKIRT AND J-STING THE BEST THING TO DO

    What is wrong with me and how can I change this asap???

    I want to change this asap as I am sick of being a mean bit...



    1. I find the more I work out the more attractive I become. I don't like the attention. For example, I took my car to the Biggest Chain - the car section and 2 guys came out to help me try and clean my trunk - you have to dump old car products at a garage (not a household) garage. I said: 'holy, I don't need army ok!!!%26quot;. %26quot;You know what forget it, I can do this myself!!!!! I don't need a the entire army so just go back in the store!

    They left all mad and I saw them staring. I shouted %26quot;go already, Je...Chr...!!!!



    I am just a girl (since) kindergarden who has to have all my moments perfect and i like doing it all myself.



    What is wrong with me???? It made my night bad even though I said sorry to those guys 2 times. I felt so bad.



    Then a random man was walking by and checking me out. I put my nose up in anger and scream %26quot;what!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!%26quot; and kept walking.



    What is wrong. All the stuff coming my way is nice attention from men. and I freak on them. I should be comlimented but I get pyscho.



    Why??????????????



    Sorry for all my typos as I'm on now on LorazWhat is wrong with me and how can I change this asap???It seems that your wanting all of your moments perfect and not wanting help or being looked at by men who definitely find you attractive shows maybe that you have had a bad experience in the past or something, i don't know for sure, because i don't know your history, but maybe it is repressed and that is why you feel bad after these experiences. I think that first you should try to come to some terms with yourself and allow yourself to slowly begin to get rid of the fear of attention and realize that you will get attention from men but the key is not to attribute it as a negative experience in your mind. Good luck in the future.

    I hate being a loser, but I don't know how to change. I just need help in how to do it.?

    Hey I just need some info if you guys can help or relate to this. I just got out of high school and into college. I thought this was going to be a big change in my life, I thought I would do something for myself, but I'm exactly the same. I feel so hopeless in this world now. Before I had hope I would change but as the days pass by I get worse. Its not just that but who I am, everyday I look at myself and I hate how I look. I'm fat (some people say I'm not fat just chubby but I know I'm fat),ugly at some level, and these stupid baggy eyes I have. I feel like I'm losing my mind and when I'm alone I start dreaming out these stupid scenarios of me and this girl I like. I sometimes feel like if I just got to go out with her I can change. But I have no self esteem or confidence and I know if she saw that I don't have those, she wouldn't want to date me. Also I got no job so I hardly ever have any money and the money I do have goes to my rent because I live with my friend and his family. I feel like if I Iost weight, got a job or got a gf there would be this chain reaction in my life and some of my problems would be solved. The thing is that I when try to do one of these things I seem not to be able to give it my best, as if I have no motivation. I don't know what to do. I'm also starting to become more of a jerk, before I used to be nice but now I just want to hurt someone or just make them cry. Also school is a problem I get homework from my classes or essays I have to do, but instead of doing the work I tend to play games or watch a tv show to take away the stress...........I just need help I really don't know what I'm asking, hopefully someone can lead me in the right place. I feel like I should just give up and jump off a cliff or something. LOL I hope no one I know reads this, then they would probably think I'm a big time loser.I hate being a loser, but I don%26#039;t know how to change. I just need help in how to do it.?You're a loser because you think you are. You're going to be like that all your life. You need to gain confidence. Who cares what people think? Shows you're also very insecure. Because, you're fat you think you're unable to do anything? Isn't that shallow of you?



    You need a Job. Get one. Now.

    You like a girl. Ask her out.

    You need to lose weight. Start walking your *** 15 minutes daily in the morning.

    Change your eating patterns. 6 healthy /SMALL/ meals a day.I hate being a loser, but I don%26#039;t know how to change. I just need help in how to do it.?see a therapist.

    seriously.

    you can be helped.

    better now, while you are young.



    if you are in college, your school almost certainly has a counselor on campus.

    start there.I hate being a loser, but I don%26#039;t know how to change. I just need help in how to do it.?You need to see a counselor.I hate being a loser, but I don%26#039;t know how to change. I just need help in how to do it.?Awwwww you're NOT a loser! Everyone once and a while thinks they are a loser and I read the whole thing! I always feel like I am a loser sitting alone always and im so shy and quiet! I cant stand it but I just try to ignore it and you should too! I bet if you imagine your dream, believe in yourself, and try to achieve, you will feel better about yourself! Imagine, Believe, Achieve. Thats my schools matto, Haha dont steal it!I hate being a loser, but I don%26#039;t know how to change. I just need help in how to do it.?yeah, tl;dr, but i got the gist from your actual question...

    You can't magically get popular/wonderful/perfect all at once, you do actually have to work at it. Yes, it does help if you're starting anew at some place because people don't know you and don't look weirdly at you when you suddenly change. Stop looking at yourself. Well, rephrase that. Remember how you look when you looked ok, and think of that whenever you don't feel confident. Stop staring at yourself in the mirror, it's seriously unhealthy.



    Get into exercise. People in Vietnam get up at 4 and go to the park to exercise. By 6:30 it's usually deserted. You don't have to go to such extreme measures but try to exercise at least an hour everyday. It will help so much, just don't expect much change for a month or so.



    Start positive thinking? That's what other people call it, I call it conceit, I've always been big-headed and it seems to work. I know I can do anything I want. And don't play it safe. If there's a challenge for you to write 25000 words in a month and 50000, choose 50000. If you fail, well yeah, thousands of other people did too, nothing too bad about that. If you do it though, it's a miracle and it's so much better. Run before you walk, and fly before you run.



    Baggy eyes? Sleep more. That and 'positive thinking' should help with the mood problem too. Get a job, meet new people, make new friends. Laugh more. Read jokes if it helps. If you've read Twilight, this is really funny; http://xlormp.livejournal.com/13908.html



    I hate to break this to you, but building up your work gives you MORE stress. MAKE yourself do your work. Read some books to take away stress, Terry Pratchett is a great author.



    So yeah, you're not going to change because of some miracle. Just do things. It's fun.



    Oh, and you could improve things greatly if you paragraphed your question, it's really hard to read and I skip over whole lines.I hate being a loser, but I don%26#039;t know how to change. I just need help in how to do it.?worry about school first

    plus if your fat its cause your not doing anything about it so thats your fault again

    and if you like a girl she should like you back even if your fat or not so go find one

    but the thing is you keep looking at your self bad and worrying to much about your nerd look and how your fat and how your lifes is a mess

    just stop wasting life and go find itI hate being a loser, but I don%26#039;t know how to change. I just need help in how to do it.?Ok the problem is that, your so negative why don't you look youself in the other side, which is the positive side.Remember that other people opinions does not have to become your reality. Just remain to do good things. If you want to loss your weight then have the discipline. Think things that will avoid you to eat but not totally not to eat. Your depressed. That's why your thinking this kind of thing. Try to relax your mind, meditate. Enjoy your life, dont ruin your life just because of your disapoinment. Go out with a friend, enjoy things that God made for you.I hate being a loser, but I don%26#039;t know how to change. I just need help in how to do it.?you know how many people out there in this world has had the look and have had a bf or gf and all of a sudden their world just becomes nothing? Im talking about these girls who are like celevrity looking and have a drug or alcoholic problem and they have to struggle in life and all seem like they are happy, but they are not. so you are one of the luckiest people in this world to have 2 legs and 2 arms, a body, even if you feel chubby, and you have 2 eyes, and thank goodness for that. In these world there is people who only have one leg, or are deformed by birth or even accidents and they still maintain a high-self esteem to keep living. so if you really think about it, you are bringing yourself down and you needd to STOP IT, and start thinking positive and change your way of thinking, so you can look different and people will notice you.



    advice, go some place for a makeover, do your hair, dress like you would love too, do your nails, make up. start with something or do something different out of the ordinary so you can feel better and start from there, maybe this changes can give you a boost to change.
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    I won't know if im pregnant until 2 weeks time, theres a good chance i am as i had unprotected sex, where the guy ejaculated in me on the day i was most fertile. i'm 16, almost 17 going to college next month to study travel and tourism. i was just thinking ahead and wondering if theres anyone out there whose had a baby at a simular age and how much did it change their life. i want to move to turkey after my course has ended and get a job as a holiday rep or something to do with the hotel chain. but will i be able to acheive this if i have a baby? i would have an abortion if i cant carry out any of my dreams. i know thats selfish but if i was to have the baby the dad is not going to be involved. he blames it all on me that i could be pregnant and he said i have to get rid of it otherwise he's not going to be involved. so i think its best if it did turn out im pregnant to get rid of it? help please! no judgingHOW MUCH WOULD MY LIFE CHANGE IF I HAD A BABY?You have no idea how much time good parenting takes and if you don't have a partner it is all you. No time for studying, hanging out with your friends - it is a time consuming job.



    Oh yeah - why do you want to be involved with someone who says they will dump you if you are pregnant? Sounds like a peach of a guy!



    Birth control. It works wonders.HOW MUCH WOULD MY LIFE CHANGE IF I HAD A BABY?Well im not going to tell you how much its going to change your life, considering the fact that you would kill a little baby jsut because things arent going to be about YOU anymore. A baby isnt something that you just %26quot;get rid of%26quot; its a human being too and your just acting like its a piece of trash, if it gets in your way your just goin to throw it away, thats how your acting. If you cant handle what can come out of sex then you dont need to be having sex and you really need to quit being so selfish. Abortion is NOT a form of birth control. Dont want a baby? Dont spread your legs or have protectionHOW MUCH WOULD MY LIFE CHANGE IF I HAD A BABY?its not a huge change, your life doesnt just do a 360 and you dont just have to give your life up like alot of people say. yes you do have a child to care for and look after and you have to do more family things as well but you dont have to give up your life. we are expecting and yes i did have to put things on hold until the baby i fully plan on continuing life after shes here. she'll just have to come with me and my husband will have to babysit alot lol but it doesnt just ruin your goals. anything you can do before a baby you can do after

    I saw small drops of Coolant under my car this morning, not by the hoses, could it be Water Pump?

    On my 1991 Olds Calais 2.5L %26quot;Iron Duke%26quot; 2.5L Tech4, i noticed small drops of Coolant dripping by where the Pulleys are, NOT THE HOSES, after 5 minutes of car warming up. I wonder if i need to do my Water Pump %26quot;Soon,%26quot; As it does NOT seem to be the Hoses, and MAY disappear a slight Coolant level drop, that happened fairly consistently (nothing major, but every week or two i noticed the coolant in the tank may have gone down by an inch, or slightly less. I did just flush it and its all bled and mixed.)



    I dont know when the Water Pump was last changed, if ever, and i also read my Engine does NOT have a Timing Belt OR Chain, which is weird.



    Is the Water Pump a Prime Suspect here? How much longer do i have, before it goes? I can change it at the end of the month..



    Thanks!I saw small drops of Coolant under my car this morning, not by the hoses, could it be Water Pump?If the drips seem to be centered bellow the pump or where the fan attacheds to the engine block, you very well may be right. Often the water pump and/or gasket there can fail.I saw small drops of Coolant under my car this morning, not by the hoses, could it be Water Pump?yes it is the water pump, you got to jack the car up and put another jack on the oil pan with a wood block for support, take front passenger wheel off and take off all belts,take off front and right engine mont bracket, drop engine 6 inches,pull off all belts, and harmonic balancer, disconect ac pum

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    I saw small drops of Coolant under my car this morning, not by the hoses, could it be Water Pump?It sounds like the water pump.There is a gland hole in the casting and when the water pump bearing starts to wear the seal leaks and water comes out of that gland.You should change the pump straight awayI saw small drops of Coolant under my car this morning, not by the hoses, could it be Water Pump?Well Bink, it could be the water pump, it could be the thermostat housing, it could be a leaking hose, caused by a lose clamp ! Check freeze plugs, but if it's at the front of the engine, I doupt

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    How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?

    I sipped my mornings coffee

    the window I stared through.

    Asphalt same as yesterday

    I wish I could change the view.



    I saw a boy named Toby

    he lives just up the street.

    He spends more time pushing his bike

    then sitting in the seat.



    A group of kids raced past him

    as he fumbled with his chain.

    I remember being an eight year old

    I felt this child’s pain.



    My words “do you need a hand?”

    were met with a six toothed smile.

    We pushed it into my garage

    we worked and talked awhile.



    I learned he had a pet rabbit

    Its name, I recall was Bear

    that Bear, himself and his three sisters

    all had reddish hair.



    I straightened both of the rims

    by turning each and every spoke.

    I adjusted the seat and handlebars

    As he told a knock knock joke.



    He asked if I could make it go faster

    my lecture on gear ratio brought a stare.

    We searched my cabinet for lightning grease

    I told him his next race wouldn’t be fair.



    The bike all back together

    we shook hands and said goodbye.

    Now outside my window

    a smiling streak of red …races by.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?Dammit Yid........ you made me cry. I wouldn't change that view, if you didn't see what you saw... how could you help!

    That right there is a man with a heart of gold. I wish there were more of them around!!How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?I smiled all the way through this and got a little choked up.



    I think I may be in love!How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?Every kid should have a neighbor like you. Sweet write.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?This gave me goosebumps and I ain't lying!



    You hit me with truth, decency and the triumph of the human spirit when given an ounce of kindness, and you did it with such sharp imagery, I was so there, watching it! Extremely touching, Yidiot, I do believe one of your best.



    maHow simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?sometimes not as simple as that, but I enjoyed the view from your kitchen window ~ all bent over the bicycle.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?Another answerer was right; every kid needs a neighbor like you. I liked the poem, it was really sweet.



    The view from my kitchen window isn't that nice. Just the driveway.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?I popped in to answer .. a poem.. and found this smiling streak of red...

    It reminded me of Mr Jones... put me right back to being 6 years old again..

    a more relaxed yet pensive state in my being where the world was not an evil place..

    thanksHow simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?What a happy, wonderful, poem. I love the story, the kid, and you fixing his bike. Good job! Thanks for sharing.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?me too, me too!

    Goosebumps!



    sometimes seemingly

    randon acts of kindness

    can play together to create

    who we becomeHow simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?ahah brought a smile to my face there buddy, good job. =]

    I liked it alot, it flowed perfectly, it told a good story without going overboard with detail yet I was able to picture everything perfectly, from the 6 tooth smile, he garage, and his hair. =]

    Good job. =]How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?you are.....



    ......a Santa Claus Sir!How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?I did not cry.

    I did not get goosebumps.



    But I read it twice and thought to myself %26quot;This poem is good. Really good.%26quot;How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?By lending a hand.

    By giving what is worth more to the receiver than it was to the giver.

    Value adding in the giving.



    Nice poem, good stuff.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?This gets %26quot;the Best of Show%26quot; award along with the blue ribbon..



    Thank you for starting my day out with such positive thoughts...



    and, by the way, where can I get some %26quot;lightning grease%26quot; ?...My grandson would be delighted...How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?Like watching it all unfold....How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?wow , your goodHow simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?I like this one. All of the words seem to flow nicely together.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?A jewel of a poem, detailed with caring.

    Thank you for sharing your words touched me and left their print.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?Thumbs up dude ...How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?Now that's some poetry. Brilliant!!



    What was the knock knock joke?

    Inquiring minds want to know, i think.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?Very nice Y...I love it!How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?You softy, you.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?Awww Yidiot...tiss beautiful.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?What a cute and charming story. I almost stopped at the second line though %26quot;the window I stared through%26quot; being so incredibly awkward, I was ready for a third graders toss off. But baring that (and I am so grateful I didn't jump ship) a great read and an uplifting story. Thanks.How simple is it to change the view from your kitchen window?Loved the pictures you told us from your window!

    Lucky kid!

    How to change gears: how does the left index shifter works on a bike?

    Hi there!



    I got a second hand salcano 18 shimano gears bike and I have no idea about how the left index shifter works.



    The bike has got two twisting shifters. The one on the right is linked to the back derrailer and it has numbers.This is the common shifter.



    But the left one has got little hyphens (stops) and only two letters at the ends H and L which I suppose tand for Nigh and Low.



    So I have two questions;



    1. Is there a specific order to change gears? So first the right numbered shifter and then the other one? Or both at the same time?



    2. To go straight (not up or down) which gears would you recommend? high numbers on the right shifter and closer to Low on the left shifter?



    I just dont seem to get the right combination of both and it rattles. I have read that normally one needs to keep the chain close or far away from oneself, but both from the same ends/derrailers. That if one is closer or further than the other, then the rattling starts. There are some videos online about shifting gears but they only explain numbered shifters, no indexed ones.



    If someone knows, please help this dummy cyclist :)



    Thank you!!How to change gears: how does the left index shifter works on a bike?For the left shifter low is the smallest chain ring same as #1 the largest is #3 or high gear. Use the center gear or #2 most of the time. On the rear the largest sprocket is #1.



    Most riding use #2 left and any gear 1-6 on the rear.



    Climbing hills use the smallest front #1 and 1-3 on the rear.



    Going fast or down hill use the largest chain ring on the front #3 and 4-6 on the rear.



    Using the smallest or largest gears at the same time causes the chain to run at an angle. That is hard on the chain and sprockets and wastes energy.



    http://bicycletutor.com/gear-shifting/How to change gears: how does the left index shifter works on a bike?Click on the link below. Read EVERYTHING from the late Sheldon Brown.

    Prince Charles complaining about climate change, isn't that like Bono preaching about poverty?

    Prince Charles, he's had more Aston Martins, private jet flights, and range rovers than 99.9% of the population, and I'm pretty sure none of his residencys are ever left cold and unlit. Now he's complaining about climate change, and how we must do something about it! Surely this is akin to Bono preaching about poverty. Do they not realise that it's their actions at the top that cause more impact than those at the bottom. Prince Charles' carbon footprint is probably bigger than his ears, MASSIVE, probably 100 times the size of a normal mans (as IS his carbon footprint). Bono could give 99% of his wealth away and still be a millionaire, but he's happy to whinge about poverty. It's excessive greed higher up the food chain that causes it. I'm happy with it, I am high enough up the foodchain to not complain, I have wonderful holidays, a lot of income and nice cars, so I think it would be hypocrytical of me to whinge about poverty, and I'm probably 400 times less wealthy than Bono



    So should prince charles put a sock in it and start addressing his own contribution to climate change before preaching to others?Prince Charles complaining about climate change, isn't that like Bono preaching about poverty?Digger, you provided no links and don't seem particularly aware of how strongly Prince Charles advocates for environmental issues.



    A quote prominently featured on his website, a section of which is linked below: %26quot;If we lose the battle against tropical deforestation, we lose the battle against climate change.%26quot;



    So I think Charles can keep his socks where they belong, and he should keep up the good work he's been doing for years. I'd rather have a few Bonos and Charles than all the pols and stars who drench themselves in excess and don't lift a finger to help the world around them. And how, BTW, do you contribute to helping your fellow man? This seems relevant since you're casting disparaging marks elsewhere.Prince Charles complaining about climate change, isn't that like Bono preaching about poverty?All I need say, %26quot;The higher they are the harder they fall%26quot; and the fall will come.Prince Charles complaining about climate change, isn't that like Bono preaching about poverty?Prince Charles obviously doesn't understand that there is no peer review data that supports so called man made global warming or do the ecoterrorists call it climate change now?Prince Charles complaining about climate change, isn't that like Bono preaching about poverty?YESPrince Charles complaining about climate change, isn't that like Bono preaching about poverty?Prince Charles is carbon neutral... And with that I think we're done here.
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  • HELP! Which part of the cell allows nutrients and other materials to enter and leave the cell?

    A) Cytoplasm

    B) Nucleus

    C) Chloroplast

    D) Cell membrane





    2) Zinc (Zn) has an atomic number of 30. It has an atomic weight of 65. How many protons does zinc have?: *

    A) 30

    B) 35

    C) 65

    D) 95





    5. Which list below best shows how energy moves in a food chain: *

    A) Grass -%26gt; Cows -%26gt; Humans -%26gt; Sun

    B) Sun -%26gt; Grass -%26gt; Cows -%26gt; Humans

    C) Humans -%26gt; Cows -%26gt; Grass -%26gt; Sun

    D) Cows -%26gt; Grass -%26gt; Sun -%26gt; Humans



    6. In the scientific method, which of the following best describes a hypothesis?: *

    A) a statement that describes a natural pattern

    B) a well-tested explanation for observations or experimental results

    C) an experiment in which only one variable is changed at a time

    D) the proposed answer to a questionHELP! Which part of the cell allows nutrients and other materials to enter and leave the cell?D...A...B...D

    1....2...3....4



    Easy questions...picture in your mind and learn the definitions and processes to do well on your tests.HELP! Which part of the cell allows nutrients and other materials to enter and leave the cell?1) - D) Cell membrane

    2) - A) 30

    3) - B) Sun -%26gt; Grass -%26gt; Cows -%26gt; Humans

    4) - D) the proposed answer to a questionHELP! Which part of the cell allows nutrients and other materials to enter and leave the cell?d, a, b, dHELP! Which part of the cell allows nutrients and other materials to enter and leave the cell?1) D

    2) A

    5) B

    6) D

    I dont know how to make friends.?

    okay, i know that sounds a little sad, but its true.



    i can start off a friendship pretty well, talking, sharing the spotlight, making people like me etc...



    but after a while everyone that i have ever been friends with has made sure that i am not a tall poppy, that i am the bottom of the food chain in terms of respect amongst friends.



    insults and small joking punches is usually how it starts, because i seem to have become a pacifist in recent years, and i have never been good at comebacks to nasty remarks, joking or not.

    the next step is actual attacks at my status in the group, or calling me gay and spreading rumours.

    then, finally, people start to copy what the others are doing and soon after i am universally either hated or disrespected by every single one of my friends.



    this has been going on all my life, and i have changed schools seven times due to these issues. i am sixteen this year.



    i am generally pleased with myself, i dont consider myself to be amazingly attractive, only average. i believe myself to have an average intellect, enough to hold an intelligent conversation but not enough to pass eleventh grade physics. i am a patriotic australian, i occasionally drink alcohol to excess, and i have had three girlfriends since sixth grade. i never make a big deal out of anything, and i am rather loud and passionate in conversations involving opinions.



    can you think of anything i can do that might help me make friends that respect me for more than six months at a time?I dont know how to make friends.?You are doing something wrong, if you want long-term friends, but cannot keep them (remember, not everyone wants or needs long-term friends. It`s not a given).



    It sounds to me as if you take yourself too seriously. And this might be your archille`s heel that they hone in on. You should learn to relax and laugh at yourself occasionally: just don`t take things so seriously.



    So when you lose these `friends` who actually loses who? Do you lose them, or do they lose you!?

    What I mean is, at what stage do you think you have lost them - why this decision. Why don`t you just have fun and stick around with them anyway?I dont know how to make friends.?they dont know how...to make frineds with u i guess

    plus that u chose wrong peopleI dont know how to make friends.?I see a problem with a person drinking to excess. Also everyone has an opinion, but getting loud is not a way to make a point. I feel if you respect yourself and others you should be able to sustain a friendship. If these people start rumors about you they may not be worth having as friends. Good luck and don't get discouraged.I dont know how to make friends.?I used to get laughed at too and I was unable to know how to answer them. Ignoring them is probably the best you can do, but if it gets too bad, I suggest you talk to the dean or your counselor, because that's what they are there for. It's probaby time to talk to them already.



    Besides that pray. Pray all the time. Don't try to get attention that might bring on laughing. Just be yourself and pray before you leave for school. Meditate on the word of God. Read 1 chapter in Psalm every morning before going to school. Another thing to read is Starting Your Day Right,%26quot; by Joyce Meyer. If you need to read it on the Internet, I'll give you a link:



    www.praize.com/clubs



    Join that web site, then join %26quot;Going Higher Bible club%26quot; and you will see the new devotionals in there every day and youcan read some of the old ones too any time.

    How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?

    My finance is a chain smokers and does not seem to realise the dangers in smoking,i tried to make him understand,he promised to stop but he till didnt change,rather he will stop for some time and later go back to it;He is really pissing me up with this habits of his,i dont really know how to make him despite smokind,your answers is deperately neededHow can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?stop giving it up...

    until he gives it up.How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?Here's the problem with smokers...

    They are addicted.



    Your fiancee probably knows how bad smoking is for him, but he just can't stop.



    Buy him the patch, or some nicotine gum, ANYTHING that you think will help him quit.



    Or you could always just tell him that you won't be able to stand to marry him if he doesn't quit. That's what my mom told my dad and that worked out pretty well. It kept him motivated enough to quit.How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?Go to youtube and search %26quot;Quit Smoking Campaign%26quot;. They are graphic ads from Australia. My girlfriend watched them for the first time and gave up that week. You fianc茅 probably won't give up that easily - so dump him instead.How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?Take him to a Lung Cancer Clinic and let him see for himself.How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?My father out lived my mother and she never smoked or drank.

    I know more smokers that died in car crashes than from smoking related illnesses.

    And there are other things that are dangerous but people don't demonize them because they would have to give up something.

    Check out this link.How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?show him pictures of lung cancer. There are some ones of people with holes in their cheeks, or people smoking THROUGH holes in their necks made by the cancer.

    or postpone the wedding until he gives it up.How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?You can buy these things in the store were u put it in them and when they go to smoke it blow the top of from them it funny to watch toHow can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?You can't make him quit smoking. If he wants to quit, he will find a way to do it himself. And you're fooling yourself with that %26quot;does not seem to realize the dangers%26quot; nonsense.



    If this is really something you can't live with, don't get married.

    How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?

    My finance is a chain smokers and does not seem to realise the dangers in smoking,i tried to make him understand,he promised to stop but he till didnt change,rather he will stop for some time and later go back to it;He is really pissing me up with this habits of his,i dont really know how to make him despite smokind,your answers is deperately neededHow can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?well bottom line it is his choice! and all the talking in the world will not change the mind of a smoker!

    I know smoking is bad I don't think it is as bad as other people say. but it's not good for your body that's for sure!

    i quit because i wanted to and still smoke a few here and there!

    if you have never smoked it's a hard habit to break!

    my aunt who gave up smoking over 20 years ago still has the desire to smoke here and there she dont' but the cravings never stop!



    Have you tried doing something with him!

    ask him to find a bad habit of your's that he wishes you to stop and both you start changing that habit!

    Let say your over weight so he stops smoking and you start to work out and eat right@

    something you both can do!



    also try to ask him not to stop but to be aware.. say i know you want to quit on your terms but will you could you do me a favor and lessen your smoking just cut back a bit. or give yourself a limit per day or at least wait 30 minutes before smoking another smoke!

    if this really bugs you with him smoking something to think about for yourself is canyou live with that if he stays smoking not sure when your going to marry but if youc an't live with that then it may be wise not to marry! and you find someone you can live with their bad haibts! this habit does effect you slightly! when your in closed area's







    oh maybe just say no smoking in the house! or no smoking in the car! but smoke as much as you want! that helped me cut back!!!How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?Find out where your nearest cancer ward is and make him go and visit a patient or two. He'll soon give up. Don't give up nagging him to stop.How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?you can only control yourself. Learn how to get rid of one of your harmful or annoying habits %26amp; you will understand why is doing what he is doing %26amp; also learn about how to heal addiction. Actually, co-dependency is an addiction it is when you depend on someone else to be happy, calm, peaceful, etc. When you heal yourself others around you heal.How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?Let him find out for himself then he will be sorry or just break up with himHow can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?Sadly they will never learn. My husband's aunt was the same way. The doctor told her if she doesn't stop smoking she can find herself attached to an oxygen tank for the rest of her life.. She had a tumor in her brain, and the doctor said her lungs looked worse than her brain. But she can care less about herself. Do you know what she said about her own wake? %26quot;When I die just throw some ciggaretes in my coffin, because where I am going, I won't need any matches%26quot;. Very mature. She can cough her brains out, and wheeze till no tommorow and she still won't quit. She smokes 3 packs a day

    Other smokers in the family even were willing to give up smoking for her, and do it WITH Her. But she refused. Oh, well. to each their own. If he is as stubborn as that, you won't be able to change him.How can i make him understand the dangers of being a smokers?get him stories of people who have suffered from cancer like they had to cut off there legs or hands,or go for ever in rehabilitation center.but in a lovely way while both of you are relaxing soothing him how the lady involved missed the man.
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  • Animal abuse and backyard breeder * I'm sorry if it's long but please bare with me*:[?

    I really don't know what to do. Behind my neighbors house who lives across the street there's a house that has rows of kennels with dogs in them and one dog chained outside. I always hear the dogs crying over there. At first I thought that maybe I was just over thinking it but I've gotten a little worried lately because they seem to be backyard breeders *And I'm very sensitive about that* and they have a lot of dogs and they keep changing them from time to time. They have different breeds back there and they're not walked, just kept in the kennels all day. They are fed and given water but sometimes I don't even see the owner come out to feed them at all. I don't know if I should report this because what if I'm wrong and animal control doesn't find anything wrong? Will I get in trouble? My neighbor told me to that she saw the owner shoot one of his dogs one night and that really got to me. I suspect abuse *like hitting the dogs* but I'm not 100% sure.



    Also my parents have these friends who have these 3 dogs, 2 chihuahuas and a %26quot;Great pyrenees%26quot;. Even though the chihuahuas are taken good care of (if you don't count the abuse from the kids) the great pyrenees is chained outside and isn't fed everyday. It has old food that's already molding but that's all they give him until he eats it all. And he won't eat it (for obvious reasons) and one time the little girl who's 4 went up to it and started hitting it with a stick and he didn't bite her but he did scratch her in the face, and her dad got mad and almost shot it (they saw her hitting the dog but they didn't stop it). And just yesterday I overheard them telling my parents that they don't want it anymore and that they're just gonna leave it when they move or they're gonna sell it. And it really pissed me off, but I don't know what to do because my parents told me not to worry about it...but how am I NOT gonna worry about it? It upsets me because even after all that it's such a gentle dog, like when we go over their house and he sees us play it comes running but then the chain stops him and he chokes all he can do is just watch us....it's really sad actually cause he's such a beautiful dog who deserves better:[



    I've been witnessing so much animal abuse *and not just these 2 situations* it's really sad cause I wish I could help all of them but my parents make me feel helpless and everything is just so overwhelming.Animal abuse and backyard breeder * I'm sorry if it's long but please bare with me*:[?Before calling Animal Control and the local Animal Cruelty Investigators in your area, you should photograph and take video of the cruelty and abuse occurring in the yards, but do it legally and inform your parents that you wish to take the video and pictures.

    Definitely plead to your parents to keep the dog because her really needs someone who can love and care for it. Plead with your parents to at least buy the dog from him. Talk with them and tell them that you'll help with the responsibilities and that you do not want to see that dog get hurt anymore. That he will be a great addition to the family, and that they even saw a small glimpse at some of the torture that the dog went through (and that they did not even report it or say anything about it).



    I feel so sorry for the dog and I wish you could have him as your own.

    I hate people who mistreat animals. They deserve to sit in the cages they put them in.



    I hope that dog becomes yours, and if it doesn't i hope that it can go to someone who will care for it the right way.



    Another possible thing to do is contact the local SPCA, but okay it all with your parents.



    Also, tell them that %26quot;Weren't you the ones who told me to do what I felt was right inside my heart no matter the consequences? Well this is that time, and I feel as though we need to take care of this dog, because we could be the only ones to give him the life he deserves. And THAT I believe, is the right thing to do inside my heart.%26quot;



    I truly hope this helps you. I would like to hear the updates on your story with the dog. If you can, feel free to email me. Thank you.Animal abuse and backyard breeder * I'm sorry if it's long but please bare with me*:[?Report both families.You can call from a pay phone and you do NOT have to give your name,so no one will know it was you.You have to do what it right for those animals.They have no voice in the matter,so you must speak for them.Animal abuse and backyard breeder * I'm sorry if it's long but please bare with me*:[?This is pretty serious. You should contact your local police or animal control.Animal abuse and backyard breeder * I'm sorry if it's long but please bare with me*:[?You can't get in trouble for calling and being wrong. Just call and ask if they could look into both situations, tell them what you know and tell them your not 100% sure on everything. Ask them if their is anything else you can do or specifically watch for.



    Hope those dogs get some help and love :(



    On a side note, you could ask if they would mind if you walked their dog on occasion.Animal abuse and backyard breeder * I'm sorry if it's long but please bare with me*:[?You need to report this right away.Animal abuse and backyard breeder * I'm sorry if it's long but please bare with me*:[?tape the scene where its getting abused for the proof . then go to a police show him and they can investigate.. its pretty serious.Animal abuse and backyard breeder * I'm sorry if it's long but please bare with me*:[?On the first case you mentioned about the breeders, you can do this anonymously.



    And in case #2 lets hope they sell the dog to someone who will care for it and love it.



    I am like you, I cannot stand to see dogs mistreated. Our dog is so spoiled, if he could only see how good he has life. lol



    I am proud of you.Animal abuse and backyard breeder * I'm sorry if it's long but please bare with me*:[?report those muther f-ers dog breeders are suppose to take care of the animals until sold and as far as shooting the dog it out of question report them as soon as you can i will honestly pray for those dogs